Relationships are built on mutual trust? Yes? No?
When I say relationships, i don’t specifically just refer to the typical boy-girl relationship. Basically, every kind of relationships. Friendships, family bonds, married couples, relationship between you and your colleagues/boss, etc.. You get the drift.
Maybe yes. Maybe no. Some are both. Some are neither. Right.. Of course, what on earth am I talking about? Some say, “Mutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose.” However, I feel that mutual trust is extremely important in building the most or one of the most ever treasured relationship. You break it, you’re astray. No mutual trust = not going towards the same direction, so ask yourself, what is the point? It’s either you change your purpose in life or anything relevant, compromise, or you leave.
Whenever starting a new or fresh relationship, ask yourself the same question. “Do we have the same purpose?” And when i say purpose, it doesn’t have to be specific. However, it should be practical, feasible and realistic. Have a timeline and take it step by step. When it’s all good, well of course there will be some ups and downs, but at the end of the day it depends on how well both sides handle everything. When there is mutual trust, you know that you are going on the right direction.
Nobody said it was going to be easy.
At some point of time you may feel that the whole world is against you.
Or maybe you are just being judgmental.
Everything does not always have to be directed to you, that is why we have people around us to share the burden with.
But, it is ones’ choice to decide.
Then comes choices, opportunities, dreams and options.
Yes, life fucks us all, it is THAT influential to plant insecurities, doubts and hesitations in us. It is THAT simple.
Then it will lead us to “Should I or should I not give up on….”
Certain things are meant to be given up, but certain things are worthwhile to hang on to.
Then again, it is ones’ choice to decide.
Oh how complex can it get?
